know why?
if I'm cool mom, my kids would think that I'm cool mom and let them have everything what they want.
OR
be friend with them and social with their friends... acting like their age. that would be EMBARRASSING!
TRUST ME....
I'm GOOD mom to my kids... they need tough love and showing grace throughgh the Lord... i do want my kids said about me, my mom is so good to me and love me a lot no matter what if i fall in mistake or acting stupid or something like that. she will pull me out of mistakes and showing me grace and tough love and i want to be like her.
i don't want my kids said about me, my mom is so cool! know why? she bought me ipad! let me go out to partying with my friends! or she let me drink beers whatever i want!
NO NO NO to this.... why? this WILL led them to mistakes that they will stuck in and hard to get out and never learn.
i want my kids growing up in GRACE and TOUGH love, so they can showing grace and tough love to their future kids. :) of course, they have to learn from mistakes that they will not do that again.
i loves to be a mom and it is HARD... i know that feeling...
my mom never show me grace or tough love through the Lord. I do wish she do that to me. i don't consider my mom as cool or good. i looked up at her as passive and scared.. i don't want to be like her. I do want to be like my pastor's wife or other moms who have passion for the Lord. That's what i want to be like them. they helped me alot and they showed me as a good MOM!
but, about my mom, i know she had hard life in her whole life, which i can tell. her parents are divorced. (don't know why). her dad disowned her and don't want her to be part of his life. (that's which it is sad). the story between her and him, i have no idea. her mom has mental illness. that is all i know of.
I'm so thankful to be a mom that God gave me the purpose. :)
Psalms 78:6 so the next generation might know them—
even the children not yet born—
and they in turn will teach their own children.
